Comparison is the thief of all joy




This popped into my feed - Tanya Roesler posted this article 


https://www.facebook.com/share/p/HZEr1iTTFvNwY6Cq/?


Here are some of the thoughts that this post invoked! 

  • Your fiercest competitor is yourself!!! 
  • When you look in the mirror - what do you see?
  • A victim or a victor ?
  • A failure or a lifelong learner on an amazing journey ? 
  • Someone who takes responsibility - or blames someone else or something else for your situation ? 
  • A winner or a loser? 
  • Someone who has succeeded or is on their way to success - or as one one who has failed or given up ? 
  • Someone who is loving life or not?
  • Someone who is looking forward to tomorrow-or dreading tomorrow ?
  • When you look at the glass of water - Is it half full or half empty?


And because life is like a mirror ….those around you will feel how you feel!!!! 


If you feel like a winner …. the energy will emanate to those around you - and they will feel like winners !


To be a winner - there does not have to be a loser !!! It can be a win win win 


So - here is a test for you …..

When you are in a queue - smile at someone - with joy… and say hi or hello … see if they smile back! 


Phone someone you know  and say  that you were thinking of them and remembered “the time when ….. (a great time you had together )” 


See that persons energy lift! 


Stop , stand up straight , think of something good that happened , smile πŸ˜ƒ as if you mean it - do you feel better? 


Has your energy lifted ?


You are a consequence of your life’s experience - the way you interpret them will determine whether you are a victor or a victim !!


If you see a lemon - what do you need to do to turn it into lemonade? 


The ingredients are around you!!!  

As a mentor of mine said …. You just need the right attitude and have the aptitude (which can be taught or bought ) to determine your altitude .



Do you See yourself through locked & chained security entrances and self regulated, neglected pathways… that looks and feels like hell on Earth πŸŒ - 


Or 


Do you See yourself on a journey of exploration on a planet filled with abundance  πŸŒ and opportunity? 


How you see yourself is totally dependent on you - no matter what your circumstance!


Who you are is who you believe you are - not what you believe other people think you are ! 

What you believe your truth is ….. is 
Your perception is your reality !!! 


No matter what your circumstance and what challenges you are facing … (and you will always be facing challenges )….. it is solely your choice about how you feel….. and the secret to success ….. in my view ….. is feeling how you want to  feel !!! (Or who you are feeling ;)) 


How you perceive yourself … is how others will perceive you!


Gotta luv the word “Pleb” 

Meaning :- Victim , someone you feel sorry for 


How do you Escape the inner pleb in you? 

It is high risk, strategic, timeless with sprinkles of luck!!! And lock will come if you believe in it πŸ€ 


So … here’s to a pleb free life. 


Happy daze…